Happy New Year, my friends! To start the year, I have a very special story to share with you – one of deep love, inspiration, and enlightenment that I’m certain you’ll enjoy.
In early November, my college friend Sally kept popping into my head. We hadn’t checked in with each other for a while, so I wrote a quick “How are you?” email. To my surprise, Sally responded with an extraordinary story of Spirit communication! And the wonderful news is that she has generously agreed to let me share it with you.
Sally has had one of those years. You know what I mean: when the Universe throws everything at you all at once. Sink or swim in the deep end of life. But just as the Universe takes away, it inevitably gives back in unexpected ways, often accompanied by the realization that all is as it’s meant to be.
Here is Sally’s incredible story that lies at the intersection of love and faith.
Last winter, Sally moved in with her elderly mother, Donna. At 81, Donna was becoming increasingly frail and needed some loving assistance. The blessing in this arrangement was that for the first time in decades, Sally
and her mother were able to spend leisurely evenings and weekends together, exploring all manner of topics in a way they had never done before. One evening, the conversation moved to the topic of “what happens after we die.”
Mother and daughter decided to make a pact: whoever died first would try to communicate across the veil to the other. Sally and Donna didn’t go so far as to set up a code word or even a specific means of communication; they just decided they would try, because they believed it was possible.
Donna passes into Spirit
In March, Donna took a fall that put her in the hospital. It was a fall from which she would not recover, and Sally’s mother passed unexpectedly, yet peacefully into Spirit. Donna had often said over recent years that she was happy to go on to the realm of Spirit, that she was ready. For Sally and her siblings however, it wasn’t so easy. The experience of losing one’s mother can leave one feeling like a ship without anchor on wind-tossed seas, but one miraculous event in the midst of Sally’s grief gave her strength she didn’t know she had.
Breaking through the Veil
It was 10 days after Donna’s passing, and two weeks before a larger memorial service was to be held. Sally got into bed that night, leaving her laptop within reach. Normally, the laptop spent the night on the dresser, but this was no normal night.
In the wee hours of the morning, Sally was woken by her mother’s voice, “Wake up, Sally! Wake up! Sally, wake up!” The voice got louder and louder until it pulled Sally out of a deep slumber. At the urging of her mother, Sally felt compelled to turn on her laptop. She opened a blank document and just started typing and then her mother took over. The words flowed rapidly through Sally’s fingers and onto the page. The awaited contact!
Now, if this were to happen to me, a trained medium, you might think it wasn’t anything particularly out of the ordinary. But Sally is no “traditional” medium. In fact, despite being a good friend of mine for over 30 years, Sally wasn’t yet to the point of feeling comfortable sitting for a reading with me. I just waited for the day she might be. And never did I imagine, and certainly nor did she, that Sally would be her own medium!
Below is the dialogue that ensued between Sally and her mother, Donna (in Spirit) on Sally’s computer. Ellipses (…) represent comments personal to Sally that I removed.
April 2, 2015 – 3:18am
Sally: OK, here’s some weird stuff. I feel like Mom is channeling through this computer to me. I feel like she is keeping me from falling asleep. She is trying to tell me…
Mom: I love you all so much. I know you did your best for me. I tried to do my best for every one of you, but I had to go. Take care of Tom (Sally’s brother). … You and I said that we would try to contact each other once I was dead, so this is what I’m trying to do. I am happy. My soul is happy, but I’m trying to do what I can for all of you. Just take care of Tom. You will know how to do it when you have a question, because I will speak to your soul. I love you all.
Sally: What else can I do mom? What should I do?
Mom: Know that I am watching you, all of you. Don’t fight. Keep everyone together. Know that I am here. I love all the grandkids, every one of them the same. Help them all, trust your instincts.
Sally: Mom, help me give you the best eulogy I can.
Mom: I will and you can do it well. You can be a writer if you really want to be. I am with you. I will help you.
Sally: What was it like to die?
Mom It was weird. I went on a journey through a tunnel. I am on The Other Side but I can try to communicate with you once in a while, if you are hearing me. And you are hearing me, Sally. Sally, you wanted me to try and communicate with you, so I am.
I am excited to go to the next step. It is so great not to hurt anymore. I hurt more than I told any of you I did.
I am not your mother anymore. It is wonderful here. It is wonderful where I am going. I’m still not all there yet.
Sally: Can I go to sleep now? What else do you want to say?
Mom: Just that you should do your best by everyone. Don’t forget. Now go to sleep.
Did you just say, “Wow”? Because that’s what I said when I read it. It’s a fabulously clear communication filled with love — and it provides us a rare insight into what happens to a Loved One after so-called death.
There are many lines of communication from Donna that support, in surprisingly candid terms, much of my own work as a medium and Life-Between-Lives hypnotherapist, reaffirming the work of Dr. Michael Newton, as shared in my favorite metaphysical book, Destiny of Souls.
So, let’s break this conversation down a little bit, and see what Donna is really saying.
On Spirit Communications
“You and I said that we would try to contact each other once I was dead, so this is what I’m trying to do.”
“You will know how to do it when you have a question, because I will speak to your soul.”
“I am on The Other Side but I can try to communicate with you once in a while, if you are hearing me. And you are hearing me, Sally.”
Contrary to the premise of the once popular TV show, Ghost Whisperer, where Spirits finally cross over to The Other Side never to be heard from again, this message from Donna makes clear that our Loved Ones in Spirit are as near as we need them to be, for as long as we need them to be. In truth, our Loved Ones speak to us often in response to our needs or prayers. All we have to do is to find the quiet within and listen when they speak to our souls.
Did you notice the time? 3:18am. Spirit is most active between 2am and 4am,when the ambient noise and Earth energy is at a low, so it’s not surprising that Donna chose this time to communicate. Meditating in quiet and calm nature settings may also bring you the same ease of communication.
On Spirit Presence
“Know that I am watching you, all of you…Know that I am here.”
When we call on our Loved Ones, when we grieve them or just think of them, they are immediately at our sides with love and support for all we do. Have you ever experienced the sudden shift in emotion when you think of a Loved One? One moment you’re fine, and the next you’re crying, and you say to yourself, “Where did that come from?” It’s the energy of pure love that those in Spirit share with you when they are close – it opens and softens our hearts, and tears often follow.
Now, there is what mediums refer to as a “black-out” period, which extends somewhere between 2 weeks after one’s passing to as long as 6 months, when the Spirit is less communicative. Why? Because they are busy reintegrating their current life soul-energy into the whole of their soul, and moving through life review and reflection with their Spirit Guides and counselors. Don’t be dismayed; he or she will be back and around as soon as their own energy is whole and healed again. When they come back, however, they will be communicating with you from the a much higher perspective, and undoubtedly with greater knowledge of your soul’s goals in this lifetime. The personality may persist, but the level of spiritual awareness and light energy is significantly heightened.
On Spirit Support
“You can be a writer if you really want to be. I am with you. I will help you.”
All we need to do is ask for our Loved Ones to help us, and to be very specific with our requests. They happily volunteer their time and work in tandem with our band of Spirit Guides for our benefit. All those synchronicities that happen to you…give thanks and gratitude to your Loved Ones and Spirit Guides for lighting your way!
On the Process of Passing into Spirit
“It was weird. I went on a journey through a tunnel. I am on The Other Side… I am excited to go to the next step. It is so great not to hurt anymore.
Donna, as all souls, went through the tunnel of light to The Other Side. The next step she refers to is the reintegration of her current life energy and personality with her Oversoul or Higher Self, the greater part of her energy body that always resides in the realm of Spirit.
She comments on the physical pain being gone, now that she’s out of the body, which served as the vehicle for her Spirit while on Earth. Donna chose the family she would be born into, her husband, her children – all prior to this life. They would provide her the opportunities she sought for spiritual growth.
On Soul Re-integration
“I am not your mother anymore. It is wonderful here. It is wonderful where I am going. I’m still not all there yet.”
I was especially excited to see this concept shared by Donna. It’s another reference to Donna reintegrating with her Oversoul – the larger and complete soul that recalls all lifetimes lived, including time lived on The Other Side. Since it had been several weeks since Donna passed, she was already mid-process and therefore cognizant of this fact as she speaks to Sally. Donna clarifies that she “is still not all there yet” meaning, the re-integration is not yet complete, but she shares with Sally that it’s a wonderful process and place to be.
Donna would be known on The Other Side by her soul name. That said, the love she feels for Sally and her other children in this lifetime does not reduce, but rather grows as she goes through her transition. Mostly likely, Donna and Sally lived many lifetimes together, and have loved each other through their various roles, relationships and experiences. We don’t choose our family members lightly prior to birth; there’s history and deep abiding love developed for other souls through millenia. We enter into Sacred Contracts with these souls to play various roles in our Earthly lives, roles that help each member learn and grow spiritually. Donna is now again privy to all this hidden knowledge.
Donna’s State of Being
Just look at the various adjectives Donna uses to describe her current experience of transition: happy, excited, wonderful, great.
Sally’s State of Being
I asked Sally if she remembered typing the document. She replied, “I remember opening a blank Word doc, then started typing. I only remember writing the first entry, then I was suddenly SO tired. I do recall typing, ‘Can I go to sleep now?’ Then I closed the computer and fell into a really deep sleep. Not until I opened my computer the next day, did I remember I’d had this experience. Usually I have my computer on the dresser, but that night I had it on the floor before I went to bed.”
Best guess? Donna had a hand in guiding Sally’s decisions before bed and keeping the computer nearby — all so that Sally would stay in a semi-conscious state while typing. The simple action of Sally getting out of bed to get her computer from the dresser could have brought her too close to full conscious awakening and thereby less effective as a Spirit channel.
“It was the only thing that kept me going.”
In the initial email from Sally, she spoke of the role her mother’s communication played in her own healing process:
I would read the message over and over. It was the only thing that kept me going. I don’t even know why it kept me going, but it did.
Sally keeps a copy of the channeled dialog with her mother on her phone and pulls it up whenever she needs a little extra dose of the strength and inner peace it brings. Works every time.
There haven’t been any more late-night chats with Donna, but I won’t be too surprised to hear from Sally that Donna has come through again. When I was home for a family Christmas last month, Sally and I finally sat for a reading. In the reading, Donna came through and offered some suggestions on various means of more conscious communication. I’ll let Sally share any updates in the comments section below.
Granddog Rainy knew…
On the last day that Rainy, the granddog, would see Donna, he refused to leave Donna’s side. And much to the amusement of all, he insisted on sitting very close to her on the sofa, protecting her. Did he know Donna was headed for a fall? Perhaps. Our animals have a second sight that goes beyond the average human, and Rainy is clearly no exception.
Despite the “sink or swim” string of events of early 2015 (of which Donna’s passing was just one), I am happy to report that Sally has swum to shore and has found firm footing once again.
Sally, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your story with me and my friends around the globe. It is filled with love and hope and strength for us all. And it reminds us that there is no death, only a transition to a “wonderful” place, where our lives continue with great purpose.
Love and light to you all, my friends~
7 thoughts on ““Wake up, Sally. Wake up!””
This gives me hope to know that SOMEDAY I’ll finally not be in pain.
Bodhi and Karma hung around in spirit constantly for over a year. During a reading with Karen Fay in early December 2013 she said that they would leave soon and move on. Within a few days they felt gone. I knew they needed to progress but it made me sad all over again. But, like you wrote, they still pop by every once in a while to say hello…Bodhi more so than Karma, as she was cocooned for quite a long time to heal.
Thank you so much for sharing this.
You’re welcome, Denise!
Yes. Thanks for sharing that Renee. Interesting…..I have on occasion had communications with the other side. It doesn’t happen through any desire or initiation on my part. My experience has been more like this. I am in a movie, an actor. And from time to time a director gives me directions or reminds me I am in a movie and need to get back on script. Sometimes in the form of a relative who has moved on. Or reminds that this is all a dream and I have lines that still need to be read. And a reminder that there is purpose and meaning in this drama……..And there are times, I question the wisdom of agreeing to this movie , this role. Dare I walk out on my contract. Like I’m here, i don’t have the awareness I had when I signed on the other side. ….Anyway, thanks for sharing that again Renee. Nice to know what is going on in Renee world.
Dan, that’s fascinating that your guides and Loved Ones have chosen such a “literal” presentation of the us as “Spirits having a human experience.” Yes, I agree that we are acting out the script we wrote in collaboration with many others prior to being born. We need to ad lib as we go along, but certain “lines” or events are to be read or experienced per the script if the stars align as they are meant to do. I hope you remember what they tell you to help you get “back on script.” If so, how wonderful to have such clear direction!
Thank you for sharing, Dan!
My 35 year old daughter passed unexpectedly 5 months ago. She is the love of my life and I feel like my life no longer has any purpose. I cry everyday and grieve missing her so intensely. I have trouble doing normal everyday things since my energy and enthusiasm has diminished. Shortly after she passed I began seeing a blue orb of energy that I can summon on a daily basis, in various settings. I have a phone full of images and videos of this blue energy. Mostly I do believe this is my daughter’s energy although I’m not 100%. I have a friend who’s a medium and has given me several readings telling me this IS my daughter; she wants me to know that she’s happy and watching over me. Do you have any information you might share with me with respect to seeing energy as I’m describing? Thank you! I really enjoyed the story about Donna.
I’m glad to hear you enjoyed the story of Donna. It is extraordinary, to be sure!
And thank you for sharing your experience with me and my readers. Regarding the orbs, I can say that Spirit orbs have been observed for centuries. About 10 years ago, I attended a week long training on past life regression by Dr. Brian Weiss at Omega Institute, where many spiritual kinds of retreats are held. And everyone with a camera was capturing moving orbs of all sizes all week long, but especially after hypnosis sessions — some large enough to see a spirit face inside. It was truly extraordinary. My explanation is that these Spirits were our guides working with us, under hypnosis, determining what past life references would be most insightful for us at that point in time.
Since then, I’ve had people share Spirit orb photos with me taken in homes, at grave sites, yoga retreats, in churches. So – is it possible that your daughter is comforting you with her Spirit presence? Absolutely! It’s wonderful that you can be aware of it — that’s the tricky part. It seems to be that spirits have all manner of reaching us, differing levels of abilities — yours and theirs. Most Spirit orbs are invisible to the naked eye, so you must be very special 🙂
Cory, you might also enjoy reading, “Hi Honey!”, “The Story of Susie” and “Marbles from Merle” and “A Message from Laura: Live, Love, Laugh!” — stories about my Loved Ones in spirit comforting the rest of us on the Earth plane. (You can use the search function at the top of the page to find them.) And their efforts keep going. Just yesterday in fact, my sister, Laura sent another message to me. I’m still glowing inside from it.
Love and blessings to you, Cory —